How To Communicate With

Emotionally Manipulative Behaviour

Online Course

"My boss is micromanaging me, I'm ready to quit my job"

"My marriage is suffering...they guilt trip me for trying to connect"

"They belittle me in front of friends, It's embarrassing"

What situations are currently taking up too much of your time and energy each day?

Are there ongoing challenges with others that you’d love to resolve, but you’re unsure how to approach them?


Imagine how it would feel to have a full toolkit at your fingertips — one designed specifically to handle every kind of difficult interaction, especially with those who always seem to want the upper hand.

There is a 'hidden' side to challenging behaviour that we need to see

Why trying to be nice and helpful actually makes the situation much worse

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Learn powerful skills of self reflection to ensure that you are in the most efficient state of mind to communicate with all challenges.

There are 6 main emotionally manipulative behaviours and they have very specific emotional targets... Are your vulnerabilities in their sights?

Emotionally manipulative behaviours hide in plain sight and always have an elusive exit strategy. Discover the mask of smoke and mirrors.

Did you know that we can unknowingly attract the very emotionally manipulative behaviours we want to avoid... all explained in module 4!

If somebody can get behind your defences it can drain your energy! Learn how to protect yourself and stay calm in the process.

Each of the 6 manipulative behaviours require a specific communication... discover each style and effectively create a win win.

Difficult situation can take their toll in the form of stress or holding on to the past, learn how to let go and rebuild your energy!

Life doesn’t have to be like this…

You have options –
If you invest the time to learn!

Sometimes a single interaction with somebody’s emotionally manipulative behaviour can completely throw off your day—but you do have options.

Each situation calls for a different strategy, and by understanding the “why” and “how” behind the behaviour, you gain the tools to navigate hidden wordplay and restore your balance.

People are not controlling because it's personal...
it's because they are overwhelmed

Hi, Paul here…

While it might be nice to begin with “let’s all stay positive and live happily ever after,” the reality is often far from that. When people feel insecure, they instinctively try to control situations—and others—as a way to feel safe. It’s rarely personal (even if it feels that way); it’s about their own need for security.

The challenge comes when we have to communicate with them. If we don’t know how to put them at ease, their controlling behaviour often becomes more complex and difficult to manage.

Over 25 years of research, I began identifying specific behavioural ‘styles’ and tested these approaches first on myself, then with thousands of people—consistently seeing great results.

It’s incredibly inspiring to witness people overcoming workplace bullying, domestic conflict, or low confidence in social settings and transforming those challenges into confident, authentic self-expression. It all begins by learning how to create a ‘win-win’—even with the most difficult personalities.

Paul is an inspirational, creative and highly skilled teacher who clearly knows his stuff. Paul's integrity and authenticity shone through and was key to the success of his approach. I'd highly recommend the courses and Paul to anyone.
Steve Rouse
Lead Learning Specialist

HOW CAN THIS HELP YOU?

STAY CALM UNDER PRESSURE

Insecure people will often try to manipulate others in the hope they can gain control. Often these strategies are hidden in plain site, but you'll soon start seeing them.

AVOID THE ENDLESS LOOP

Millions of people become ensnared in this hidden spiders web of converstation where effort drains energy. Break free using skill not force.

THE SOCIAL CREDIT CHECK

Discover energy leaks or potential threats hiding in the shadows of the people around you. This can shine the light on the 'unseen'

GET YOUR POINT ACROSS WITH RESPECT

The ideal of any communication is mutual respect. Be that person who is able to communicate with the most challenging person in the room , with ease.

Discover the 6  Emotional Manipulative Behaviours

  1. The Oppressed Victim
  2. The Saviour
  3. The I’m Too Busy
  4. The Fault Finder
  5. The Imposer
  6. The Destroyer

These types of behaviours will often be used together and in rapid succession which causes confusion and disorientation

WHAT YOUR COURSE INCLUDES

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STEP BY STEP GUIDE

TAKE A LOOK WHAT’S INSIDE YOUR NEW COURSE

MODULE 1 – All About You

It is easy to assume that it is all about the other person, but to communicate with manipulative behaviour it is essential to understand yourself. Here we will be looking at any potential anxieties or reactions that could be used against you in potential conflict.

MODULE 2- The 6 Main Emotional Manipulation Behaviours

Saying vague terms such as narcissist will tie a person in knots. Here we will look at very specific and individual styles of emotionally manipulative behaviour and exactly how they work. Each style works very differently and will look for very different vulnerabilities in their targets.

MODULE 3 – Hiding IN Plain Sight

Emotionally manipulative behaviour can be very elusive and woven in with everyday chat leading to confusion and disorientation. But every form of communication has structure. In this module you will discover how to recognise the illusions of distraction.

MODULE 4 – The Attractor Factor

It takes two to tango and in emotional manipulation, this is very true. Here we merge modules 1&2 and discover why two people seem to mysteriously attract each other. Even if they don’t consciously want to there is very often a sub-conscious pattern at play.

MODULE 5 – Protecting Your Energy

To communicate with challenging behaviours will require energy and focus. However, at times the behaviour can aim to trip you up and cause anxiety and stress which is a disaster for energy. Here we will cover strategies to keep your boundaries strong and your mind clear.

MODULE 6 – Communicating With The 4 Styles

To effectively communicate with challenging people, we need to be clear in our minds. Only then can the strategies we cover here be effective. It is literally talking a different language to each style. Learn the language and you will be heard and respected creating a win win.

MODULE 7 – Resolution & Healing

Emotionally manipulative behaviour in others can often leave its mark and can stay within the mind for many years to come, sometimes even decades. Here we will look at the most effective methods to let go of past trauma allowing the mind to have a peaceful future.

“Whatever words we utter should be chosen with care for people will hear them and be influenced by them for good or ill.” 

Buddha

A small selection of the things you will discover...

Discover how behaviours are alternated and compounded to distract the other person’s attention
– Module 3

How your past hidden anxieties traumas maybe being used against you without either side ever realising it is happening
– Module 6

Discover any of the people in you life who may have hidden anxieties that could trigger them to use emotionally manipulative behaviour
– Module 4

The step by step process strategy to discover if you are present or being hijacked by the past in conversation
– Module 1

The one question to ask to find if something in your behaviour is a target for people who want to take control
– Module 4

How to recognise the true intentions behind other people’s actions and if they are emotionally manipulative or genuinely supportive
– Module 2

How to start to let go of the past anxieties and trauma so that you can live in the future and enjoy the life you want with inner peace
– Module 7

How to stay grounded and fully conscious when communicating with even the most challenging of behaviours
– Module 5

Learn the language...

There are millions of people all over the world and all are coming from different experiences and life paths. How one person will cope with a situation may be very different from another. 

To be able to communicate, we must learn the different emotional languages that people speak so that the other realises that we understand them. This is the bridge to connection!

YOUR QUESTIONS...

The tern narcissism is refering to a person who has become overly consumed with their own ‘self’ and is doing so through low self esteem. However narcissism itself does not define any traits. It is an umbrella term. 
In this course you will discover the specific styles of emotionally manipulative behaviour that a person with toxic narcissism will project to attempt to reduce their anxiety and stress. 

There are a wide range of techniques covered in this training, however it is more a case of how grounded and focused you become in the communication. 

There are many techniques covered in the program on how to keep yourself in a calm state. These will take time to master first, however you are in control of that area. For some people it will feel easier than others. 

The more you practice the more efficient you will become. 

Although there is a lot of techniques covered in this program, it is also important to asses each situation carefully. 
If a situation is potentially dangerous or violent it is highly advisable to seek further support.
The course covers a wide range of areas, however certain situations may require intervention such as in the situation of domestic violence.  

All the course is designed with full HD video and is explained step by step with practical examples and suggested tasks to reflect upon each lesson

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This is a comprehensive walkthrough course with step-by-step guides

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Become the person who knows how to get your point across and be heard and respected in even the most complex of social situation

How would it feel to be able to confidently navigate challenging situations that others dread or avoid through anxiety and confusion?

ACTONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS

The first step is the most important – start today!

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